Mounting frustration...

What is the point of planning anything (mentally or physically) when your husband is in the military???? There isn't one!!! It never goes as planned, NEVER! Hub was told today by the career planner that his recommendation did go up through the chain. He can still submit his request for the lat move but there's a 99% chance that he won't get it. I just assumed that since he passed the board (albeit barely) that he'd get the move. I guess not. So, he's submitting the request but he's not planning on it going through. That means he stays in the infantry and we figure out where we want to go. Upside, we'll probably go back to the west coast...downside, there go all our plans of paying off our bills. We're still going to pay them off, it's just oging to take way longer. I know God has his plans and that he'll take care of us no matter where we go...I don't know why this is affecting me so bad. I serioulsy feel like bawling my eyes out right now. It's like they're telling me that Hub isn't good enough for them, when they'd be lucky to have him. He'd be perfect for that job. I know he's upset, though he's acting like it's no big deal. I just had all these plans and now they're gone. Poof! Just like that! Am I supposed to learn something from this? Don't count your chickens before they're hatched!? I just want a better life for us. Is that too much to ask? Could I feel any lower?